My sons who are forever asking "why" and "How" and "Where" and "Who" and "When".
We all ask these questions in our hearts and heads to god, the universe, spirit, ourselves.
The difference between their questions and ours is, they know that the answer will come. They have no doubt what so ever.
The fuel that drives the questions is a knowing that they will get the answer!
When I have asked my questions to the Universe ( with that pleading, winging, voice that implies the answer will NOT come) the Universe simply responds to it with the answer NOT coming.
When I ask knowing that the answer WILL come, it turns up!
The Universe is not judging us, it is simply responding, like for like the intent/vibration with which you are asking!
I KNOW the answers come to me!
I KNOW how to ask.
And I ask.
Remember as a child there were 2 ways of asking for something.
One way you didn't get it!
The other way, you did!
We are still children of the Universe!
So, ask with the knowing that you are always provided for!
For you ARE always provided for!
Even when it seems you are NOT being provided for!
The INTENT, the underlying belief is the vibration that bounces out and back to you, not the 'thing' or 'person' or 'situation'.
I know the difference in feeling, in vibration, between a question fuelled with doubt and one that is fuelled with a knowing that the answer comes.
I feel it in my Solar Plexius.
It's a slight change in feeling!
Play with it!
Start by changing your language,
"Even though I don't know right now, I am willing to accept the answer will come"
"They're have been plenty of times when the answer has come"
"I am willing to accept the answer will come!"
"I know the answers come to me"
"I am ready to recieve the answer!"
"I am open to recieving the answer"
And then be open.
For the answers do come!
They say a computer is only as good as the user!
So, if you're like my ol' man, a silver surfer who boogieboards the oceans of the tinernet, you'll be great at sendin n receivin emails and saving pictures in an overpriced photo album that no one ever gets to see or feel, whilst waiting frustratedly as it decides to open the door to argos.co.uk and will quickly rename it as the World Wide Wait, glitchy, it'll freeze at inopportune moments like paying on ebay and will suddenly close down losing anything that hasn't been saved!
It does beg the question,
Who is in control of who?
How long do you put up with it?
There are people out there that can defragg it and uninstall old programmes and heal it from the virus's it picked up along the way!
Now imagine your mind was like your computer....
The screen being the conscious part, in your face, showing you what you need to know right now, keeping an eye on the time, storing the history and generally playing out anything you tap tap tap onto the screen...
The hardrive being the subconscious part, storing ALL the programs and actively playing them out as and when you trigger them into action, or indeed just silently playing out the commands on a daily basis without any thought from the screen at all!
Infact, if you want to change something like a doccument, there is no difference if you call up a document you saved 10 years ago or one you saved 10 mins ago and change it and then save it, is there? Same goes for any belief that you may have formed. Time is irrelavant in the hardrive/subconsious mind.
Communication from the conscious mind/computer screen to the subconscious mind/ hardrive has to happen in order for any programme or document to have any effect.
Now, the computer can be used without any connection to the internet at all, but, it is a tad borring eh!
If you still have dial up (YAWN) or indeed a dodgy broadband signal, you will be very aware just how frustrating it is when the connection fails and your left stranded, floundering around relying on the limited functions of the computer! And, if you're like my dad, could go for days, forgetting that the internet is even there!
As soon as you connect to the interntet or Universal Mind you have anything you could ever imagine at your finger tips, it's only as limited as the user whose using it!
Again I ask...
Whose in control of who?
Is your mind in control of you?
That's like saying your computer is in control of you! (although my Dad would say his actually is!!!)
Your mind is the fastest running, most powerful computer EVER invented on this planet and YOU are in control of it!
It has an expanded processing capacity and can assimilate thousands of events, an average of 4 BILLION bits of information PER SECOND!!
If you want to become more effective, conscious creators, it's important we understand the relationship between the three minds, Conscious, Subconscious and Universal Mind. The subconscius mind acts as a bridge between the universal mind/internet and the conscious mind/the computer screen, allowing communication to flow in both directions.
Understand the workings of MIND and how to hack into the hardrive and uninstall those dodgy programmes from the 80's and install new, empowered, loving programmes that are befitting the you of the NOW and you start to become the Conscious Creator of your LIFE!
Ya know ya wanna!!!
As Jai, my 7 year old, bounced on my bed this morning, he suddenly, in a voice full of injustice, flopped onto his hunches and demanded,
"How come, you grown ups, when you do something wrong like when you shout at us kids for no reason, and then you just say 'sorry' us kids, we just say 'yeah ok mum' and then we just get on with it, totally forgiving you, but you adults, hold on to it for ages?? But, when we say sorry, we still have to go to our rooms or lose out on watching telly? You adults just hold onto stuff for like ages. That can't be good for you can it?
Mmmmmmmmm I sat down next to him and looked at his very astute observation with him.
"Interesting Jai, and yeh, you're right I do hold onto stuff for a bit. Maybe adults find it way harder to forgive and Let go than you kids. You're very good at it. Keep hold of that skill darling, because it's something many of us grown ups have lost along the way and are trying to get it back" I said.
"I will mum" said Jai
"I remember being a kid and sometimes I knew i didn't deserve being shouted at and a sorry was all I needed to hear, which I never did. Adults didn't seem to say sorry to children back then".
"Well you're doing very well then Mum"
"Awwwww thanks Jai, bless you" I smiled
"If you want to be able to just accept my sorry and get on with it, just copy me if you like" offered Jai
"I'll give it a go Jai, to forgive and let go, I'll give it a go!!
Off he ran into his bedroom.
A few minutes later a little head popped in through the door,
"so, I won't need to stay in my room now then when I do something wrong?" he asked!
_ My Soul is holding the camera of life, the lens, the belief structures I have created and believed.
Reality projected like a home theatre screen.
My sense's filtering the outside in.
Sight, sound, touch, taste, smell, energy.
As I flick the switch and take a pic and store a memory, how whole is it?
I yearn to be able to put the camera down and truely See and Hear and Hold and Taste and Smell and Feel.
_ I have the great Fortune of raising two boys into men….
I am very conscious that one day they will be men who have been raised almost completely by a women.
As a women who has had to navigate her way, some what blindly, coping within the second generation Feminist culture that sprang forth out of feelings of disempowerment, with men who too are bumping around, unsure of their rolls within relationship, society and themselves, I can honestly say it has been both extremely challenging and supper rewarding!
When it comes to LOVE, physical LOVE with oneself and another, I have had the great Pleasure of dancing that Dance with some Beautiful Tantric Masters, and so my view on Love and Sex may very well be different from many.
I intend my future men that I am raising, to spring board past the neurosis and fumbled disjointed grab their knowledge from the porn industry expectation that us old grown ups don’t have sex past 30 and that they are THE BEST at humpin and groanin like Dirk Diggler and into the realms of practicing Intimate Soul Connecting Nirvana Touching Tantric Love from the beginning!!
Too many of us have ‘gotten into trouble’ and have hang ups around Love and Sex, simply because of the lack of conscious honest communication.
When my son asks me in the car, going to school “mum do you wank?”
I will NOT go red, feel a rush of FEAR and tell him off for being rude and using the word Wank!!
I will instead embark on the first phase of wisdom and knowledge sharing around Self Love, Energy and Connection to Spirit…
(not that this happened this morning or anything!!)
Recently, I've been working with a young adult, whose been gripped by Anxiety so strong that the mear thought of going out would engulf them to the point they would pass out and wake hours later with no memory at all. Housebound and friendless for a good few years they have the good fortune of attracting me into their life.
I say good Fortune because what they have just experienced is pricelss!
After a few sessions the trust had built enough for me to talk directly to 'Anxiety'. With some gentel questions it turns out that 'Anxiety' knew how the young adult really felt about the exams they were about to do, and the 'conveyour belt' of study, university, mindless job just to earn money that they were about to embark on, and so, decided to halt the process, so vehemently no one could argue with them about it and force them to continue along this 'conveyour belt'.
Well, although this was not new news to the young adult, it was the first time they had connected it all together, and they actually thanked Anxiety for all that it had done for them!!
They even relised that many times they had voiced that they actually did not want to get better because of the impending 'converyour belt' of life that loomed waiting for them. They went on then, in great detail to describe the life they 'thought' would happen if they got well enough.
And then I asked this simple question...
"What would you rather have?"
Oh My Lord!!!
I saw the energetic shudder erupt through them as they dramatically jumped the boundary from their problem space into a world as yet, unpainted, undiscovered!!!
In our next session we went outside to the shop and back!!
First time in 3 years!!
Peace and Love
War does not create Peace.
PEACE creates PEACE.
Focus on what you DO want, not on what you don't want.
Asking the question "What would I rather have?" flips any negative thought/feeling/situation into a positive.
Asking yourself and the Universe Conscious Questions, keeps your vibration in possibility and out of doubt.
Remember, The Universe responds to both, without judgement, so best to stay in the Possibility Frequency eh!!!
It's ALL about the Conscious Question!
The BIG questions and smaller questions.
Who am I?
What is my Life Purpose?
Where have I come from?
Where am I going?
One of my Favourite questions is:
"How does it get better than this?"
This was my first Conscious Question to the Universe ~
The Universe and I then co~created the last 13 years of my life!!
I continue to ask these 2 questions in the smaller moments day to day, the bad moments AND the GOOD!
Today I am Grateful for the good Relations I am developing with my Emotions!
I see them as messengers coming to my house and knocking my door, with important Infomation and Wisdom for me!
If I choose to sit scarred at the knocking at my door, the messenger will just simply keep Knocking...
getting LOUDER and LOUDER and LOUDER untill.....
I either get very very ill, emotionally, mentally and Physically...
I open the door and say....
"Hello....Do you have a message for me??"
Mum, NLP Trainer & Master Practitioner & Life Coach