Throughout the gestation period and birthing process and the first 7 years of life, we form our core belief structures about ourselves, and the world around.
By going back to our own birth and Recognising, Respecting and Releasing we can literally rewrite our neural net, our programming, thus changing our experience of life.
I've worked with people who remember exactly what the DR, Health Care Professionals & family members said to them and about them as they were birthing, and in the first few years of their lives. "He's a stubborn one" and "He so late" "She doesn't want to be here" "She's trouble" "Look at her, she's so angry at the world" 'She's a fussy eater" "He's so demanding" "He's ravenous all the time" 'She's so lazy" "She's so naughty" "He's such a pain" "He's relentless he never gives up" "She's disgusting" "He'll be the death of me" were some of their core beliefs that shaped their life experience.
One women who, as a baby, wasn't expected to live and whose Mother was told not to bond with her because the Grief would be easier to handle, and so she never fully incarnated or ever felt really connected and loved by her mum. She always felt like she wasn't really here & was never seen for who she really was. Under stressful situations she would get incredibly exhausted and have to shut down in order to cope, which had started to impact heavily in her day to day life. On reflection it was what she did as that tiny baby so her body could do what it needed to survive & cope. She could feel that everyone around her had given up on her in that incubator & had left her totally alone without any kind of loving contact or connection.
So, those feelings like no one believed in her, of separation, loneliness, isolation & that she just wanted to leave and go home, ( not commit suicide) just to go home, and that utter exhaustion and constantly shutting out life, resolved itself once she had gone back and claimed her rightful place and recognised and respected what had gone on and why, which brought about a natural resolution and forgiveness and so she could finally release it all and let it all go, maturing up her baby self to the here and now to truly incarnate in her body and live her life! All that vital life force that was lacking before came flooding back.
I can see how my own birth story directly influenced how I birthed my children & has influenced my life. I was due at the same time as my cousin, who lived up the road. She was born with the cord wrapped around her neck and didn't ever take her first breath. As such, I was engulfed with wave upon wave of grief, panic and fear. As these emotions coursed through my mums body, I soaked them up. A very real fear that I could die as I was being born nestled into every one of my cells. That life and death were tied together and that at any moment the unexpected could happen. To be pregnant and to birth were like walking the Life Death Tight Rope, a Game of Chance where Trust took a back seat, & Life wasn't a safe place, there were no guarantees. A disconnection between me and my mum set in, as she focused on my Aunty and her emotional needs. It was Relief that rippled through my household and an inwardly expressed celebration when I was born, to respect my Aunty and her daughter that was taken from her. Sad times indeed.
So, when it was my turn to birth my son, I dreamt of horrid situations where he was "taken from me" in all it's variations. It's also an Irish term for when someone dies & would have been said a lot when my wee cuz didn't come with me. Over and over I would dream these dreams, not realising I was trying to help myself heal from this all mighty wound. Off course I didn't have any of the tools I have now and so, when the time came, I couldn't let my son out and birth him into this world where he could be taken from me and as a result he was taken from me by Caesarean Section. As all three of my children have.
Using my tools I've healed this wound and gone right back and held my young mum in her panic, grief and fear. I showed her just how well she does in delivering me into this world and that she can trust and know I am safe and go on to live an extraordinary & wonderful life. I've traveled back into my mums womb and held my baby self, whispered all that she needed to hear and feel and know and rebirthed her in all her shinning glory! For she Matters, She is Safe, She is Loved, The World is Full of Wonder, She deserves to Live and Be Here, Life is Good, t's good and important to focus on herself and her needs, she is Worthy and Valid and that she can Trust.
I've changed my Whole Life Experience by doing this, and I know I've altered my daughters blue print to birth too!
In the next few months I'll be proudly adding Pregnancy Yoga to my tool box, curtesy of Lushtums Pregnancy Yoga Teacher Training, which will have a huge influence in how Women birth their babies and how those babies will go on to live their lives. I can't express just how much this excites me to be able to catch women at this point in their journey, way before crisis and trauma occur! Using the Lushtums Method, women will be able to expand their knowledge of Birth, grow in awareness of their own body and the different breathing techniques that will help them birth their babies. Throughout their practice they will connect in with themselves and their babies, growing in confidence to listen to that inner Voice, that Mother's Instinct and, be able to act on it without question when the time comes. Growing the bond with their baby, in this day and age where most babies have to take a back seat while mUm works, raises her other children and runs a house is Paramount for a healthy birth, healthy baby & healthy mUm physically and mentally. The Lushtums Method helps alleviate those common Pregnancy ailments so each class is bespoke to the mUm and deeply and gently strengthens their body & spirit, in preparation to birth they're baby!
Working with women in this way who are about to birth gives them a unique opportunity to heal in a loving & safe environment using evidence based tools that can be applied by them when they need too. Doing this work with them totally changes how they then go on to birth and live their lives, which is just HUGE as we as mUms are raising the next generation!!
I am so very Blessed and so very thankful & I LOVE MY WORK & the Huge Impact it has in Women's Lives!
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"NO I am not behind the fox and badger murders, the fracking under our beautiful fair and green land, jabbing our healthy children with a concoction of pharmaceuticals or feeding them monsanto poison just because you, the elite, have millions invested in those companies. I'm not behind you selling of our beloved and well fought for NHS or the dismantling of our Human Rights and Freedoms, the cut backs all in the name of austerity bringing about homelessness and hunger and abject poverty, I do not support your protection of the paedophiles that still walk the halls of Westminster.
I DO NOT SUPPORT YOU IN ANY OF THIS!
I demand change of the system, change of the people in parliament, I demand to vote for policies not politicians, I demand that those politicians be unbiased, with no investment in the fracking, pharmaceutical, banking corporations, I demand those politicians have come up through the ranks from the street, have no elite upbringing, are empathic with a high emotional intelligence & can implement the policies that will help grow and nurture a culture not pull it up from the roots and burn it to the ground."
But I'm a mUm now. Looking after my children at home, stuck here at my kitchen table feeling useless and helpless and then I thought "Fuck that".
The Pen is Mightier than the Sword.
It is about bringing this home ladies to each one of our kitchen tables.
WE HAVE THE POWER.
The power to put our money where it nourishes the body, mind and soul, to grow our children knowing that they are the creators of their life and CAN AND WILL ACHIEVE ANYTHING IN THIS WORLD they set their minds too.
We as women and mothers, lovers and wives must lead by example in how we conduct all parts of our lives. I say LIVE our life from PASSION and PURPOSE!
Do what you came to this planet to do! Invest in the BEST of food, educate our selves our kids, grow compassion and emotional intelligence, because that's whats missing from the elite. If they had even an ounce of emotional intelligence, were empathic in anyway what so ever they would not be doing to us and our planet what they are.
So I say a part of the revolution can start at our kitchen table.
Grow and inspire our kids to become FULL HUMAN BEINGS of the HIGHEST order... Standing tall and FREE of the elite standing on their shoulders!
Now is the time, if there was ever a time, where the most radical, extreme action one can make is by becoming FREE of inherited Dogmas, Belief Structures, programmes & the 'out thereness' that keeps us in-prisoned within the Matrix of control!
I urge you to become your own mistress of your own destinies.
'THEY' do NOT control you! YOU control YOU!
Start NOW to Live from your Soul, Hear the Voice of your Heart, follow the path that you were put here to do.
Become a self-sufficent, master craftsman of your own life.
Your children will copy you.
Remember we vote EVERYDAY not just once every 5 years, so, vote with your money, vote with your time, invest in yourselves, grow consciously, keep learning, join community groups, raise funds, choose Healthy, think global and act local, look after your body, the environment around you, our children.
We are the Mistress & Masters of our own destiny not them! Let them play their game. I'm having none of it. My focus is on the New. My focus is on taking responsibility for my own life, my own behaviour, my own family, my own community. My shoulders will not be stood on anymore. I walk away. Let them fall. I'm leading by example so my daughter & sons may follow in my footsteps. Confident, Strong, Empowered & Loving Individuals, who are super conscious & connected to their own purpose and passions, as I am mine.
Now is the time to build the future and become the change we want to see.
We can do this!
We are doing this!
I am doing This!
It seeps out in every choice & behaviour, thought & spoken word I make.
Integrity, Honesty, Accountability & Transparency Starts at my Kitchen Table & will spread out like WildFire touching the Hearts & Minds of every other!
So, even if you do find yourself at home, stuck at your kitchen table,
know that you are part of a Massive Movement toward a better Future.
One we can all be proud of. One that starts and ends with the knowing that we are all free anyway and can do and be anything we put our hearts and minds to.
I'm an activist of the highest order...
I'm a MUM, an AUNTY, a SISTER, a DAUGHTER! I have our future sat around my kitchen table and so do you.
Right, pass the Tea, we got work to do...
Using the Information from Dr. Bruce Lipton and the process Rob Williams created, Psychological Kinesiology, and my 11 years of training in NLP & Clean Language Processes, I have created a User Friendly Mind Hack that is totally bespoke to you!
I took the elements from Psych-K that worked for me and then applied my cleaner approach taught to me be the late and great David Grove.
The Originator of Clean Language, Clean Space and Emergent Knowledge.
Fusing this with my 11 years of training and research in The Laws of The Mind & The Laws of Attraction has born this amazing user friendly Mind Hack that anyone can do!
Psych K gives the clients their new beliefs and then they sit in a particular body configuration,
repeating their new belief over and over until they feel it is done, saving and testing it when ready.
In the beginning I LOVED this process, but as I used it I realised my system needed more.
In my work I found a lot of my clients suffering from body pain couldn't sit in this particular way and
me giving them a new belief that did not come from them, felt jarring and dirty and their system more often than not didn't accept it.
So, I wanted to find a system, a process that could be used by ANYONE and would work every time,
I applied my Clean Language Training, 4G NLP Masters & my N R Getic NLP System to
the Psych-K Process.
I realised that the fundamental Laws of The Mind had to be understood first and so the New Beliefs
having to be written in a particular way to be accepted by the Subconscious Mind was born!
At the same time I found the easy route to locating peoples negative beliefs patterns.
Their Moans and Groans, The Critiscims & The Judgments, The one-liners of negativity they think and
say ARE the Beliefs the Programmes held within the Subconscious Mind!
And they ALL need rewriting.
Getting the limiting beliefs a client has about a particular subject became easy.
And knowing the Laws of The Mind meant I could teach them how to flip them into a format that the
subconscious will accept without fail!
The Electro Magnetic Configuration test is the same as in the Psych-K Process,
as this supports the clients Mind to drop down into The Theta Wave Pattern effortlessly,
unless off course the body can't physically sit in this way & so I use a different format.
The anchoring process that is used in the Psych-K process, for me, had it's limitations & felt dirty & so the client comes up with their own SAVE which is in keeping with their system and their body needs and so will be accepted more readily.
I use a fusion of 4G NLP/Self Hypnotherapy/Meditation/Theta/Quantum Time Line Process and elements of Rapsi.
In my opinion, it's far cleaner and way more bespoke to the client.
I've put ALL of this into a basic, User Friendly formula in my the workbooks, that ANY Person can use for any issue. Including the info about the Laws of the Mind and how that relates to the Law of Attraction.
Within my practice, I also use 4th Generation NLP Psychological Tools for Transformational Change that literally
hacks your mind & rewrites, rewires & reconnects your synapsis in the EXACT way you want them to be,
so you become the CAUSE of your life.
Consciousness Sculpting is the way forward in a Self-Suffienct way!
For more info about any of this or to have a chat about me bringing this to one of your retreats or to find out more about a 1-2-1 session, then please contact me below.
Mum, NLP Trainer & Master Practitioner & Life Coach