Life, is it Destiny or a series of Random Chaotic moments thread together?
Or is it both running and bumping simultaneously?
If it's either or both where does Choice and Free Will raise their heads and breath?
In many situations it feels like there is no choice. Within that very feeling we make a choice, and sometimes the biggest choice ever! The choice of
dis-empowerment, that we can't do anything, that we are small, that we are at the mercy of life and it's situations! We make a choice by not making a choice! A lot of the time we play this out because in order to make a choice we would first have to be honest with ourselves about the person or the situation, and then we would have to own our part in it and take responsibility for ourselves and then we would have to act on that.
Not making a choice gives us a wicked excuse not to take responsible for our actions.
Brilliant Loop hole! Until it's not...
We can go around blaming our past, the future, the now, that person, this drug, that situation, but, at some point it gets so heavy that we either get squashed and forced to put it all down, seek medical intervention, some kind of mental, emotional or alternative therapy. Either way, we are left with a decision to help ourselves or not.
So, decide to put it down and make a choice to start to live Free.
Free from all that was and will be because of it!
Decide today to make changes however small. Decide to be thankful for the little things. Decide to be kind with yourself, Decide to smile more.
How we respond to life is where our Free Will, Choice and Empowerment lies!
In every moment there dwells a tiny choice, that could just change the course of your entire life.
Remember you have it!
What do you choose?
Mum, NLP Trainer & Master Practitioner & Life Coach