_ I have the great Fortune of raising two boys into men….
I am very conscious that one day they will be men who have been raised almost completely by a women.
As a women who has had to navigate her way, some what blindly, coping within the second generation Feminist culture that sprang forth out of feelings of disempowerment, with men who too are bumping around, unsure of their rolls within relationship, society and themselves, I can honestly say it has been both extremely challenging and supper rewarding!
When it comes to LOVE, physical LOVE with oneself and another, I have had the great Pleasure of dancing that Dance with some Beautiful Tantric Masters, and so my view on Love and Sex may very well be different from many.
I intend my future men that I am raising, to spring board past the neurosis and fumbled disjointed grab their knowledge from the porn industry expectation that us old grown ups don’t have sex past 30 and that they are THE BEST at humpin and groanin like Dirk Diggler and into the realms of practicing Intimate Soul Connecting Nirvana Touching Tantric Love from the beginning!!
Too many of us have ‘gotten into trouble’ and have hang ups around Love and Sex, simply because of the lack of conscious honest communication.
When my son asks me in the car, going to school “mum do you wank?”
I will NOT go red, feel a rush of FEAR and tell him off for being rude and using the word Wank!!
I will instead embark on the first phase of wisdom and knowledge sharing around Self Love, Energy and Connection to Spirit…
(not that this happened this morning or anything!!)
Mum, NLP Trainer & Master Practitioner & Life Coach